It has been said time and again that women are attracted to men that can make them laugh. If you thought this is a myth, you though wrong and there is scientific evidence and a proven history of why laughter really does turn a woman on. Now before you start running out to buy the latest joke books and DVDs of famous comedians, you need to know why laughter turns women on and how it can work for you. Simply telling a joke or two won’t do the trick, but being naturally funny is guaranteed to make more women want you.
Why we laugh
Laughter is the physiological reaction to humor, but there are other reasons people laugh. You may have noticed you laugh if you’re nervous, sad, or angry. There is a reason for laughing during times of intense emotional stress. Your body needs a release of pent up emotional energy and laughter is the easiest, safest method to release it all. Plus, it can make you feel better.
How it helps you physically
Laughter releases stress and endorphins. These endorphins make you happy and boost your immune system. If you are healthy and happy, you will feel better overall. Basically, laughter really is the best medicine to help you with whatever may be ailing you. If you feel good, you will act like a better person to those around you and it can help your relationship grow.
Why it helps relationships
Have you ever noticed that when your boss makes a joke everyone laughs, even when it isn’t funny? That’s because the boss is the alpha in the group and behavioral studies have shown that people laugh when the alpha laughs. In most male-female relationships, the male is the alpha. If you are funny and laugh, she will laugh with or at you. This sharing of laughter promotes bonding and positive feelings between the two of you. It also releases any tension the two of you may have towards one another due to fighting, which makes for a happier couple, and happier couples have more sex. Additionally, the endorphins that are released through laughter can lead to excited, happy, and aroused feelings.
What it does for your sex life
The bonding and endorphins make her more attracted to you. The beauty of laughter is that you don’t have to know someone for long for this bonding to occur, which means you don’t have to be with them for long to have sex. In fact, on the first date if your humor is right you can bond enough to make her want sex with you at the end of the night. Note, though, that the humor must be right. This means that if you force it and it isn’t genuine, she’ll know and can actually be turned off by you.
This also means that if you aren’t naturally funny, buying books and DVDs won’t help. It can actually hurt, because women do not find men with corny jokes and bad one-liners attractive. Corny, but true, being yourself is the best way to go and your natural sense of humor will have natural sex appeal.