After you’ve dated and then slept with your sugar baby for the first time, she may be feeling guilty about sleeping with you for money. This can damper your relationship, but there are ways to make her feel better about sleeping with you. Letting her know it’s ok and that you don’t look down on her will be very important after you’ve had sex with her for the first time.
Tell her why the money isn’t important
If she becomes focused on the money you’ve spent on her, tell her it isn’t important. Ask her if she would have slept with you even if you haven’t spent that type of cash. Even if the real answer to that question is “no” most women will say “yes” to make you or them feel better. Tell her that you would have slept with her without the money exchanging taking place, as well, and that you enjoy being with her.
Listen to her feelings and talk to her
One of the worst things you can do when she is feeling insecure and guilty is not listen to her. It will make her feel cheap and used and only exacerbate the issue. Listen to her feelings and keep in mind that society tells your sweet young thing that enjoying sex with a man that pampers her with gifts and money is wrong. Society and the media make her feel bad, so it’s up to you to make her feel better about what has happened. Tell her that people just don’t understand and that it’s not wrong for her to enjoy sex and that you enjoy spoiling her. It’s your money, you can spend it as you please, and it’s her body so she can use it as she pleases. The more she understands that she’s not immoral the better she’ll feel about having you as her sugar daddy.
Treat her like your girlfriend
Because of this thought that you must be in a relationship with someone if the two of you have sex, it may be beneficial to treat your sugar baby like a girlfriend. You know she isn’t, and she knows that, too, but buying her gifts and paying her bills instead of just handing her cash can make her feel like a spoiled girlfriend and not a cheap hooker. Listening to her, taking her on dates, and being intimate with her in ways other than just sex can also make her feel special. This doesn’t mean she has to meet your family (nor would she want to, most likely), but it does mean you don’t treat her like she is only there for sex.
Sleeping with your sugar baby for the first time can be exciting, but she may also feel guilty about what she’s done once it’s over. If you don’t take action to fix that feeling, she may not want to sleep with you again. Tell her that you care about her, that you respect her, and listen to her feelings. Reassure her there is nothing wrong with having sex with you for money and, that as her sugar daddy; it’s your job to take care of her as long as she takes care of you. Easing her guilt will go a long way in keeping your relationship smooth.