Finding a young girl to date can be hard to do, but breaking up with one can be even harder. You don’t want to hurt the girl’s feelings, even if you met her through an online dating site and things just didn’t click. Just because she’s a young babe doesn’t mean she doesn’t have feelings and keeping those in mind will help you if you feel the relationship must end. Following a few simple break up rules can help keep the peace and save-face for you with the next young woman you date.
Do the break-up in person
If you have started dating online and never met in person, it may be impossible to break up with the girls in person. If you have that option, though, it’s the best way to end things. You should show enough courtesy and respect to her that she feels respect for you, even if things haven’t worked out. If you must dump her online, try to do so over a video cam so that she knows you are being as polite about it as possible. When a man breaks up with a woman through text, email, letter, or instant message the woman thinks the man is a coward for not being able to do it to her face.
Let her down gently
When you do break up with her, do it gently. She has feelings and even if you don’t care for her you still want to leave the relationship feeling good about things. If you are mean or cruel to her it won’t just hurt her, but it could hurt you especially if you met her through a site. If she’s a paying member of the site and you are purposefully hurtful and rude, she could report you to the site’s administrators and have your membership revoked. Always be cautious, tell the truth of why you’re dumping her, but do so in a polite manner.
Leave her with a smile
One of the best ways to dump a girl is to compliment her. Tell her she’s perfect in every way, but you don’t feel you can be enough for her or keep up with her since she is so much younger than you. This may not be the truth, but it will leave her thinking she did what she could and the fault of the failed relationship is with you. If you ever find yourself wanting to date her again, or if you just want to remain friends with this young cutie, this is the best route to go. She’ll be happy and you’ll be free of her without looking like a bad guy.
Breaking up with any woman, no matter their age, can be tricky. If the woman you intend to dump is younger, she may not have the maturity you’re used to seeing in older women. The added stress of meeting her through a dating site can make the break up process look like a maze. Approach the situation cautiously, but remember that if you keep her feelings in mind and treat her with respect you can bow out gracefully and move onto a hottie you want to spend time with.