There are times you want to have a new sugar baby, or you want to have a relationship with a woman you don’t have a paid arrangement with. There are other times you may simply want to be free or you’re just tired of the sugar baby you have. It happens to everyone at some point, and there’s no reason to feel bad about it. Ultimately, you need to be classy about how you tell her it’s over. Following a few simple steps will get you out of your agreement and leave her satisfied.
First, talk to her about the way you feel about her and your arrangement. Tell her you just don’t want this relationship anymore and you have to end it. She may question you as to why, and you should be honest with her. Let her know if it’s another woman, or tell her you simply don’t have time for a relationship (even an arranged one) right now.
Let her know you care about her feelings and you don’t think it’s fair to her to keep her in an arrangement with you when you can’t feel the same for her. Once she knows this is something that’s good for her, she will be more willing to end the relationship peacefully. Tell her she’s now free to find a sugar daddy that will be good to her and can give her all she needs. Tell her she’s a great girl that will find someone worthy of her affections. If it makes you feel better, apologize to her that you could not live up to her expectations. This will start to make her feel like this is a positive thing for her.
Take her out to dinner and do this in person. Telling her you don’t want to be with her anymore through text or email is just tacky, and telling her over the phone is not a good way to end things either. You are a gentleman, so act like it. Take her to dinner and tell her why you want to end things. Buy her a nice parting gift to help soften the blow, and she may give you something sexy to remember her by as well. Doing the break up in person will make it sink in to her that this is for real and you truly don’t want to be with her anymore.
Remember, you do not have to be stuck in an arrangement with a sugar baby. You can end the relationship at any time, but you should do so with class. Tell her why you can’t be with her and explain to her this is a good thing for her, too. Do it in person and give her a nice goodbye gift. Ending things this way will keep you on her good list should you ever miss her in the future, and it will make you feel better about how you left things.