Good general etiquette: avoid giving too much personal details to younger women you date – here’s why
If you have a sugar baby or a young girl you’re casually seeing, you may be tempted to tell her things about your personal life. Word of advice: don’t. She doesn’t need to know everything about you, and you shouldn’t give her too much info. Here are some reasons why getting too personal with a young chick can be bad.
She may be scared off
Women do not always want to know every little detail of your life, especially if they are young and your relationship is meant to be casual. You could scare her off (or kill the mood) if you tell her too much about your ex-wife, kids, job, and health issues. If you tell her your ex-wife may be getting custody of your kids and you don’t know how to act, she may not know how to act to help you deal with the drama in your life and may simply leave you alone. Some things are better kept to yourself when dating a hot, young babe.
She may think you want a real relationship
If you’re trying to keep things casual, getting personal is the wrong thing to do. This can send the vibe to her that you want to take things to the next level in your relationship, and if it isn’t what you want, you can be in hot water for sending mixed signals. The minute she starts knowing about your problems, your family, your friends, and where you hang out when you’re not with her the more she’ll start to think she’s your girlfriend. Keep it light and keep the relationship simple.
She may be crazy
Let’s face it, if you’re dating a woman and paying her to be your sugar baby she could become crazy and blackmail you if she is able to find out too much about you. You may have a job that requires you to keep your relationship quiet, or you may be married. Whatever the reason is, if people don’t need to know about her then she doesn’t need to know about them.
She may not care
Giving too much info to her could hurt you. The bottom line is she may not be close enough to you to really care how you feel and if you have divulged personal information to her and you aren’t getting the reaction you need or want, you could be crushed or disappointed. Don’t set yourself up for this type of hurt or awkwardness. This could put a strain on your relationship in the future.
Giving too many personal details can be a bad thing when dating a younger woman. She may think you want a relationship with her that’s more serious than what you really want, or she may simply not care and walk away because you’re too boring for her. Additionally, she may be slightly crazy and could use the info to blackmail you. Keep things light and simple and avoid these issues.