You’ve had sex with your sugar baby for the first time and it was everything you could have imagined. She was as incredible as you imagined and you’re feeling satisfied and closer to her than ever before. There’s just one problem you didn’t anticipate. She now feels guilty for having sex with her sugar daddy. There are things you can do to make your lady feel better about having sex with you in such a situation. Depending on why she feels the way she does, you will need to take different approaches to making her feel better.
She feels dirty
Society tells women that having sex with men you are not in a committed relationship is wrong. For this reason she may feel dirty and like she has done something wrong. If that’s the case, explain to her that society is changing and progressing and your relationship with your lady is becoming normal and more accepted. Once she realizes she is not the only one who has done something like this, she will begin to feel better about her choice.
She feels used
She may feel like you only want her for sex and you’ve used her. You can approach this in two ways. One, you can assure her that’s not true and that you’ve spent time getting to know her because you enjoy being with her. Your sexual relationship is just a bonus for the both of you. Second, you can remind her that this is part of the arrangement you two have and had she not wanted to have sex with you then she would have been using you for your money. Tell her you don’t feel used by her, so she shouldn’t feel used by you.
She no longer feels sexy
Some women think that is you’ve had sex with them once you will no longer want them or they are not as appealing anymore. Men know that’s not true and that being sexually attracted to someone doesn’t just fade with one sexual encounter. Explain that to her. Tell her she’s beautiful and you will always think she’s beautiful. Let her know that sex with her is something you want to continue.
She feels cheap
Sometimes when a girl has sex for money or another arrangement she feels cheap. She feels like she has no other worth than to give her body to a man. Tell her this is not true and you are attracted to all of her. Tell her you enjoy spending time with her and want to keep spending time with her in the future. Mention her sense of humor, or how you think it’s cute the way she twirls her hair when she’s thinking. Once she knows you do notice other things about her she’ll stop feeling like you’ve just used her.
Whether she feels like you won’t respect her anymore, or she feels dirty and immoral, there are times when a girl will feel bad about sleeping with her sugar daddy. If you take the time to make her feel better about her decision she will be more relaxed after future encounters. After a while she will be confident and feeling great about your sexual relationship, but this will only happen if you invest the time your lady needs to make her feel special.