Being with a woman for the first time can be exciting and scary because you want to please her. Some women will pretend like they are enjoying themselves so that they don’t hurt your feelings. They will moan and scream and wriggle around the bed in fake ecstasy, but you have to know what to look for to make sure she really had an orgasm for you. You don’t want to be the guy that couldn’t get her off, after all. These are three things to look for that may indicate she’s reached climax.
She gets really wet down there
When a woman orgasms she does cum, much like a male, but it isn’t semen. However, sometimes it is plentiful. Women tend to get extremely wet when they orgasms and this is something that is hard to miss. It can make it easier for you to slide inside of her, and it may even get the bed, her thighs, and you covered in a thin layer of natural lubricant. If you are inside of her when she cums for you, you may feel her vagina tighten around you and squeeze and pulsate. This, followed by extreme wetness, will indicate she’s just had and orgasm.
She can’t breathe or move properly
Aside from being really wet, she may also not be able to move or breathe properly. If this happens, don’t worry! Nothing is wrong. She has just had such an amazing orgasm her body is weak and the adrenaline rush is making it hard for her to breathe in a normal pattern. This is a good thing and means you did something right. Sometimes women make a lot of noise, move around, and arch their backs even when they are not having an orgasm. Do not mistake this for an orgasm and if you aren’t sure, she probably didn’t cum.
She tells you and she means it
There are times when a woman will just tell you she came. Women know that faking it means two things. One, she won’t get off and two, you will get off. For some women though, the idea of not getting anything out of the deal is not going to work for them and they will tell you they did not orgasm so you can fix the situation. And you should fix it, because if you don’t she will remember that and you may be looking at not getting laid for a while.
Knowing if a woman has an orgasm with you can be hard, especially if it’s your first time together and you are not aware of how her body works. These three tips are pretty standard in figuring it out, but that does not mean they will hold true for every woman. When in doubt, just ask. If she didn’t, fix it and be ready to spend time learning her body; so that you know what it’s like when she cums.